7 Important Questions to Consider When Engaging With Someone Who Harmed You with Ashley Volk
What does it mean to love someone who has hurt you? In today’s episode I’m joined by my friend Ashley Volk, who received her certificate in narrative-focused trauma care from the Allender Center. In her experience over the last few years in facilitating Story Work groups, she has identified 7 important questions to consider when engaging with someone who has hurt you. We unpack each of these questions together and explore how love can take many different forms: from having a hard conversation, to putting up a firm boundary, to no longer engaging in the relationship. All of these options could be the right option when grounded in a prayerful discernment and Holy Spirit-driven love.
LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THE EPISODE:
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- The Allender Center
- Bold Love by Dan Allender & Tremper Longman
- The Place We Find Ourselves: Episode 93 with Adam Young
- Watch this episode on YouTube
- Grab a copy of my book Stop Saying I'm Fine
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